Seminars were held on the subject of “How to really love your children” with many Korean –American parents in the US and with Korean parents in Korea.
Many parents ask, “Are there any special ways to love our children?”
And then they asked.
“Do everyone aware of it?”
“Are there any parents in this world who do not know how to love their children?”
There were also parents who asked.
“Should I learn how to love my children?”
The answers to that questions are undoubted “yes”.
Parents have to learn how to love their children.
We live in a world where parents have a difficult time to study how to raise their children or how to love their children, and where parents cannot raise their children the way which they want to raise their children because of many reason.
Parents live in a time when parents cannot raise their children with the love which they think the best for thyeir children.
There are many child care books titles such as “Raise your children like this”, “Train them like this”, “Love them like this way”.
And there are many pediatric guidelines that say, “Take care of your health like this”, and there is also pedagogy for printing.
There are many guidelines for raising children, saying, “Love your children this way, raise them this way, train them like this.
“Until a few decades ago, some of the child-rearing, child-training, punishment–training, or child health care methods that most parents traditionally used were no longer available these days because outdated.
Children must be raised in the following ways, based on ethics and morals that are reasonable, scientific and educational, appropriate for the country and society where they live, and in the most appropriate way of raising children who become a person with abundant knowledge and virtues.
· Having a healthy mind and the body through physical education,
· Match words and actions,
· To take care of yourself, take careof your home and family, and then take care of your nation in order.
· Be kind to the person,
· Do not lie,
· Do not steal,
· Do not be jealous,
· Do not harm others,
· Have a spirit of sacrifice,
· Love your parents and siblings,
· Honor your parents and serve the elderly,
· Love and help your neighbor,
· Love the country and be loyal
· Above is a basic prerequisite that children must be taught regardless in old or now, in the west or east.
· This kind of teaching children has been the traditional parenting guideline.
· It is a commandment of life that you must practice now.
· Because traditional parenting is extremely practical and is a basic principle of life.
· These are the unchanging for raising children, no matter where in the world they lived in the east, west, north, or south, and are commandments that must be followed today.
· We are living in an age where we cannot love, train, and raise our children according to their own thoughts and judgments, depending on the field, from time to time.
· Children are not the property of parents.
· Children grow up emotionally and financially dependent on their parents, but they are independent individuals.
· All parents should study and learn how to love and raise their children.
How to truly love your children and how to make unconditional love.
· In fact, how to raise your children, how to love them, how to educate your children, how to train your children, or how to give “true and unconditionally love your children” may differ depending on the individual and the country, society where you live in.
· That’s why it can’t even explain how to truly love their children without the condition.
· However, the principle of “How to truly love your children without condition” is the same no matter where you live in the north, south, east, or west, and the past or now.
· There are a number of guides and reference books on “How to Really Love Your Children”.
· Parents are encouraged to study a lot about how to truly love their children using the handbook or reference.
· Bible, Buddhist Scriptures, Analects of Confucius, Myungsimbogam, “How to Really Love Your Child” (published by the Navigator “True Child Love”),
· “How to Really Love Your Teenager”, “Parents should also be at least a half doctor www.drleepediatrics.com and so on”
· Please use them for the parenting guidelines.
· As already mentioned, parents cannot own children. However, parents have to duty and responsibility to truly love their children unconditionally and to properly raise them.