Mom and Dad, do you love me? Mom dad, do you love me?
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A father and a beloved son with focused attention love.
If children do not receive enough love by eye contact, physical contact, and not receive enough focused attention love, and care, the love of a parent’s child is not well transmitted to the child.
Then the children shout “Mom and Dad, do you love me?” Copyright ⓒ 2012 John Sangwon Lee, MD., FAAP.
Do you love me?
The answer to this question must be “Yes”.
After receiving a question from your child, mom and dad should spontaneously say “I love you” right away.
Now, try it out.
With eye contact love, body contact love, and focused attention love, and care, mothers and fathers who truly love and nurture their children without condition do not hesitate to answer “Yes I do” without hesitation.
Will do.
There is no need for a long explanation in that answer.
Just say “yes” and wait quietly for a moment.
Then the child will ponder or think about why heor she asked such a question.
When your child asked you that question if you answered “No”. Consult your pediatrician or child care professional.
Otherwise, talk to your child.
How do you talk?
Let’s talk with focused attention love and care.
Re-evaluate the overall positive and negative aspects of parenting which mom and dad have been doing.
Parents, do you know what is one of the most important questions that your children hold deep in their hearts?
Mom and dad!
“Do you love me?”
Children, especially teens always have this question in the minds.
In fact, the teens themselves may have these questions.
“Do you love me?”
They are always asking mom and dad.
Teens especially want to ask these questions when their mom and dad’s marriage is not smooth, or the teen herself is lonely, annoyed, or anxious.
Parents’ answers to this question are very important in the lives of their teens.
They may ask these questions verbally, but they also do things or physical language.
“Do you love me?”
Parents’ answers to this question are very important to them.
If you answer “No,” your teen will be very disappointed and anxious.
Teens can’t feel that they are not at the top of the most important priorities in the life of a mother and father, they think of whom parents have picked up from, an unwanted child. Of course, Children won’t be happy.
Children won’t feel like they’re not the best, and they won’t be doing their best no matter what you do.
Mom and Dad should be able to answer “Yes”.
Let’s shift the focus of words to love between couples.
Let her wife say, “You love me?” to her husband, she suddenly asked one day.
You said you love the day you married.
Why do you ask that question again now?
How will your wife hear this, accept it, and feel?
How would she feel when she answered,
“Why do you ask that question?”
In her marital relationship, as well, she responds,
“Love and not, of course.”
If you hug her right away, the wife will be very happy as if she will go to heaven. Nevertheless, today, there are not so many parents or couples who can certainly say “yes”.
Why is that so?
Again, let’s go back to the case of teenage children.
Most of the parents who can’t say “yes” for sure do actually love their teens a lot.
If parents raise their teenage children with sincere, heartfelt care and love, they certainly answer “yes”.
Nevertheless, most parents are unaware of how to effectively communicate their child’s love to their teens.
When I gave the parents “How to love your teenage sons and daughters like this,”
I had intellectuals who quickly looked at me up and down and said,
“Is there anybody who doesn’t know how to raise children?”
I wasn’t too humble!
I have also regretted it.
I wish I had read a book without saying anything!
I think about it now.
If you feel that your teenage child is growing up and receiving true unconditional love from her parents, the teenage child does not ask her parents,
“Do you love me?”
Parents who were asked such a question from their teenage children would not hesitate to say, “Yes!
I love you” will be able to respond immediately.
Parents of conditionally loving and raising their teenage children will not be able to quickly and confidently answer the question.
When a teenage child asks her or his parents, “Do you love me?” and the answer is unclear, the teenage child will be anxious and disappointed.
Parents!
Do you know?
That your parents’ answers to the question “Do you love me?” are very important.
Parents’ answers to those questions also have a great influence in setting the direction of their children’s lives.
What an important parent-child question and answer now this time.
Parents!
Practice once in your mind.
Mom and dad!
When your teenage child suddenly asks, “Do you love me?”, you should immediately answer “Yes” to that child.
Even though I said almost the same thing before, some parents ask me, “Where are the parents who don’t know how to love their children?”
All parents answer that they know how to love their children.
However, most parents don’t know how to effectively communicate their parental love to their teens and don’t know what unconditional love is or what true love is.
You don’t know what wrong love is.
How to love children is not taught in the regular curriculum of elementary, middle, and high schools.
Probably, the only people who learn through these writings are probably the best.
I learned a lot while writing this article on the subject of “Children to Love”.
One of the important reasons parents don’t know how to love their children properly is that teens don’t know that they belong to children emotionally and physically.
There is a saying “youth”.
What is a child and what adolescents are?
By itself, parents confuse what adolescents are.
There are even parents who take their teenage children to a physician who specializes in adult health problems instead of taking them to a pediatrician for help when they have psychosomatic problems.
Teenagers, like children, belong to children who are developing and developing mentally, psychologically, and physically.
They often express their problems more in action than in words and demand what is needed in action.
As you know, adults express their feelings primarily in words rather than actions, and they demand what is needed primarily in words.
Adults are oriented in words rather than oriented in actions.
For example. I call to Korea and said honey to my wife in the US late at night!
It’s me if you call while talking.
What happened to my wife?
In the middle of the night, “No.” “Honey!
I called because I missed you.
I love you!”
With these words, maybe my wife will love it as if they were going to heaven.
But to my 7-year-old daughter, “Hey, Jin! It’s Dad.
I called because I wanted to see you” and she could imagine the daughter’s reaction. “Yes, Dad! Thank you.”
She’s not going to like the kid’s reaction as much as she’s flying into the sky as my wife responds.
Do you know the difference?
My wife, as an adult, is language-first, so the words “I love you” have a very strong meaning.
On the other hand, my daughter is still a young child, and she is oriented to action over words.
It is more meaningful to love her with appropriate actions through eye contact rather than saying “I love you”.
In other words, it is important to convey the love of a father’s child to her daughter, but it is not enough to say “I love you” so that her daughter can really feel her father’s pure, unconditional love.
If you hug and kiss them appropriately, and at the same time express your love in words, your love for your children will be more powerful and more effective.
Words that say you love your teenage children and give them appropriate physical contact love will help them better communicate their love so they can feel and accept their love better.
What do you think?
Everyone!
Can you understand it?
When I called my 14-year-old son and told him I love him almost the same as I said to my 11-year-old daughter.