Well, How to give unconditional real love to your children (4)
Photo 8. Children who grow up with plenty of unconditional love from their parents are happy and they also love themselves and then know how to love others. Whatever they do, they will do at their best.
Children who were raised and were growing up with happy and amicable parents can feel that they grow up with the true love of their parents. Also, these children live with sound healthy self-esteem and pride.
They know how to sympathize with other children, respect the elderly, and love the poor and the weak. They know how to discern right and wrong.
Copyright ⓒ 2020 John Sangwon Lee, MD., FAAP
If a child is uglier than the other children or he is shorter or taller, slender or he is mentally physically troubled or disabled, or he is talented or not, or that child is a girl or a boy, or he is promising or not, to love him is unconditional love.
To say that you love your child unconditionally does not mean that your child must not be accepted for the wrongdoing.
Children who are brought up under such conditional love without knowingly, they love others conditionally and also with conditionally love to treat their parents and families, conditionally love their spouse after marriage, even in marital relations and also all human relationships may be with conditional.
Children who are raised with conditional love from their parents treat their parents conditionally in the same way that their mothers and fathers loved them with the condition.
What a terrifying parent-child love relationship is.
If your child is conditionally doing something with everyone, it is also very important to see if I have lived and love others conditionally.
Parents must love their children unconditionally so that they can learn to love others unconditionally, establish good interpersonal relationships, and do their best in this world to live with sound healthy self-esteem and pride.
Many parents think that when they love their children, parents truly love their children unconditionally, but there are so many examples of children growing up without feeling that they are receiving true, unconditional love from their parents.
In the past, unfortunately, parents seem to have made a lot of mistakes when it comes to truly love their children unconditionally.
I know that many parents, including myself, are still not good at parenting, making the mistake of not truly loving our children without the condition.
At the same time, many parents claim to know how to love their children. Without learning about parenting guidelines or asking experts, many parents take care of their children at their will.
In that sense, I would like to thank them once again to all who asked about “How Really to Love Your Children” through my website, www.koreapediatrics.com (www.drleepediatrics.com) in the many years.
Today, many parents love their children through good education through material aspects such as toys, computers, iPhones, luxury cars, famous brand clothes, food, expensive private education, and early study abroad.
Instead of giving parents unconditional true love, they satisfy their children’s needs in a material way.
Of course, they also need adequate material access and good education. Next, let’s learn how to convey true unconditional love to our children.