Honorable Senator Paul Tsongas’ love for his children through eye contacting love, physical contact love, focused attention love, and care

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Honorable Senator Paul Tsongas’ love for his children through eye contacting love, physical contact love, focused attention love, and care

Mass. Senator Paul Tsongas’s wonderful parenting for his children with eye contact love, physical contact love, and focused attention love and care has been well known all over the world.

Several years ago, when US Senator Paul Tsongas, Massachusetts, spent time with his children, it became a hot topic that he truly loved and nurtured his children unconditionally through his warm eye contact love, physical contact love, focused attention love, and care.

“I quit the US Senator.” “Because It is my responsibility and my duty to have children at the top of my life’s priorities and to truly love them unconditionally and raise them as productive children with sound healthy self-esteem and pride.”

This fact has been published in the American Academy of Journal of Pediatrics and other prestigious pediatric journals and then I could read.

His noble and true laws of love for children were widely known.

Honorable Senator Paul Tsongas’s love for his children !!!!!!!!!!!

Paul Tsongas was a US Senator of Massachusetts.

This story of raising children was widely known not only to Americans but to many around the world.

Also, he was a good father who truly loved and raised his teenage children without conditions.

That is why he was one of the American children’s fathers who was well known to American pediatricians and perhaps to all physicians all over the world.

He was a father who devoted focused attention love and care to his teenage children.

His method of raising children was simple, natural, and essential.

The child-rearing method, which is a must for all parents, and the most difficult child-rearing method, was implemented to raise his children.

So it was surprised not only the Americans but also the world.

Even I found that he was a famous politician and exemplary father of adolescent children.

The true story of raising his children has been reported in several journals including the American Academy of Pediatrics already mentioned above and Five Crisis of Parents.

Senator Paul Tsongas had a conversation with a Boston Glover Reporter while he was on the flight from Washington to Boston in the broad daylight.

At that time, Senator Paul Tsongas had neither a travel bag nor a briefcase, and no aide to help him.

However, it is said that there was only his daughter next to him.

“My family is the most important priority in his life”, he said to him.

He was an ordinary father who thought spending enough time with his family was the most important thing in his life. It was his child-parent relationship that pierced the hearts of all our parents.

It is an example of showing that he truly loves his children and that the family is the number one priority in his life.

When he took a flight from Washington to Boston to attend an official meeting in Boston, on the plane he had only one little daughter who was about to enter the kindergarten.

In another time, he took only one daughter from her middle school, took a plane to Boston, and took her with him in the conference room.

There was also a true story that during the same night, she took his daughter and returned to Washington home by plane.

One day he had a teenage boy called in, and on the second Saturday of the following month, his son and Senator Tsongas together had promised to go on a two-day long trip.

There have been no changes since then until one day before now.

But the day before the trip, his adolescent son came to his father, a senator, and said, “Father! I can’t go on a trip with you, my dear father, tomorrow. I’m sorry.”

“Why?” he asked.

The son’s answer was like this.

“It’s because I have to date my girlfriend all of a sudden,” he replied.

Paul Tsongas was the famous U.S. Senator, a father of his teenage son, the husband of his beloved wife.

He was a public figure and how busy. He must have lived as an ordinary father.

You can guess.

Here, Senator Paul Tsongas put his children first and foremost.

This episode also showed us that he was a politician who knew and practiced that children were at the top of his priority in his life.

You can guess how difficult he must have had to live the right life and be chased by time in the turbulent life of this world every day.

He traveled with his children one by one, and sometimes with them all, and he would have focused on his love for his children.

And he would have taken care of it.

He must have loved his children with warm, compassionate, gentle, humble, and smiling eyes.

He may have loved his children through proper physical contact love.

Many parents would have made the parent-child conversation honest and serious, loving their children with focused attention love, and care that is difficult to do.

In addition, his love for his children was unconditional and he would have truly loved them.

Senator Paul Tsongas’s love for her children surprised everyone, not just our pediatricians.

While I was in the busy pediatric practice for almost 40 years, I was too busy to take care of my children, and the years passed by like the lightning passed by.

In the meantime, my three children grew up, became adults, attended colleges, graduated from, left my side, and lived independently far away.

Let me give some focused attention to love example here again.

There were many pediatricians around my town.

They also seemed to be very busy living in pediatric practice, almost similar to me.

However, there was one of the pediatricians that I particularly admire.

He had a very busy pediatric practice like other doctors in the town.

He took his two daughters who were in elementary school to go to shopping malls here and there, and when he had a pediatric meeting at the hospital, he brought the two daughters to the hospital pediatric meeting room with him, seated them next to him, and attended together until the meeting was over.

During the meeting, when I sneaked to look at them still, he touched the shoulders of the two daughters, and then they looked at each other with a loving smile and whispered.

And sometimes he brought his mother to the hospital’s pediatric meeting room and had a pediatric meeting with him.

One time, because I had suddenly a personal problem, I had to go somewhere and asked him few hours to take care of my patients as needed on behalf of me and then I would pay a considerable amount of the money, but he told me that he had promised to go to the circus with his daughters and then he refused to help me.

He was one of the pediatricians who regarded his family as the number one priority in his life and his children as the number one priority in his life.

Here, hoping for your forgiveness, may I mention a little about my personal life.

One day I met a Korean politician who recently visited to the house of one of famous professor who was living near my house here.

The visiting politician was younger than me.

The Korean politician asked me “where was your hometown” in front of the professor.

I said, “Jangdeungpo, Jungjang-ri, Anmyeondo-eup, Taean-gun,” and he said, “You  are one kind of a dragon in Gaecheon(개천에서 난 촌놈).”

I remember his words vividly up to now and I use them to write this books.

When I graduated from Ahnjoong elementary school,  my father was there.  He was at any events in elementary school, of course, on the day of the junior high school entrance and graduation ceremonies, when I graduated from high school, and at the college graduation ceremony, my father was there for me.

He used also to take me to the local feast in the birth town, and when any guests came to my house, he called me to greet to the guests, educated me, and introduced me to them.

I don’t know how much my father took care of me while giving me focused attention love and care. How can I count the love of all which he gave me?

Dear parents!

Of course, material help is also extremely in need for children.

But more important than that, and perhaps most important, is the true unconditional love to make their children put at the highest priority of parents.

If possible, only one child and only a parent spend time alone, pouring out a lot of focused attention love, and care for the child, and the love of a parent who cares for the child is extremely necessary.

The price is very expensive.

Senator Paul Tongas was a father who lived with his children as the number one priority in life.