23.Communication Between of wife and husband and A letter to My Dear Husband
As a means of communication, there are two types as Language and Actions.
You can talk only by means of words(language).
You can communicate only as a means of action.
Sometimes there are two ways to communicate such as say and do.
Having a quiet time without saying anything is one of the means of conversation.
Listening intently during conversation is a kind of conversational tool.
The wife cooks the foods which her husband likes, and giving each other to eat, is a kind of communication.
A wife or a husband buying foods and eating together is a kind of communication.
Sending one rose or 12 roses, sending a card or a gift after remembering a birthday, and sending a card or a gift on a wedding anniversary are also means of conversation.
When people meet each other, they laugh, shake hands, and hug. This is also a means of communication.
Laughing out loudly, loving each other through eye contact love, and loving each other through physical contact with a lightly raised hand on the shoulder are also means of communication.
Loving couples sitting close to each other, hugging and kissing, touching and loving with their hands are also a form of gesture communication.
Some women hold their hands tightly when shaking hands, while others shake hands with their wide-open palms without holding their hands.
Some men shake hands by holding their hands tight enough to almost break. Some women hug as soon as the handshake is over, while others do not.
Such handshakes and hugs are a kind of physical communication.
Once received, the good eye contact love of a woman can be unforgettable for the whole life.
Such eye contact love is also one of the means of communication.
All these means of communication by action can have a far more powerful effect on marital relationships and affect the lives of our daily lives than thousands of beautiful words.
When raising children, parents should not forget to often say ‘I LOVE YOU’ in word communication.
In addition, you should love them with appropriate physical contact, such as a hug, and lightly place your hand on their shoulder.
Again, such love is often needed between couples.
Some couple can naturally love their wife, husbands, and children this way.
Some couples do not know how to make good eye contact love or physical contact love to their wives, husbands, children, and others.
Such couples should learn how to love each other.
Couples must learn how to love each other, parents how to love children, and how to love others.
We are all born with the nature to love others.
You need to learn how to consciously make good eye contact love with others.
You should learn how to love your spouse, partner, offspring, or another person with proper physical contact love.
You should learn how to love, and you should wait for a lot of natural love and a happy and smooth spouse in your married life.
The athletes who won the gold medal in the Olympic Games have practiced and trained in bloody tears.
Couples must learn how to truly love each other unconditionally.
Let me give “a love phrase like this in The Song of Solomon”.
“You want me to kiss because your love is better than wine.”
“My dear, you are pretty and pretty. Your eyes are like doves.”
“I am Sharon’s daffodil and lily of the valley.”
“My beloved belongs to me, and I belong to him… … .”
“My love, you are pretty and pretty… … .”
“Drops of honey drip from your lips and honey and milk are under my
tongue … .”
“My dear, how beautiful you are, how bright you are, makes me happy.”
“Your mouth will be like fine wine… … .”
It is part of a love dialogue in the Song of Songs.
Marriage life will be smooth if the couples communicate with each other while expressing these beautiful love phrases in words and body language frequently.
Unrequited love, heartbreaking love, breaking love, rebellion love, forced marriage, the praise of love, long breakup after marriage, couple breakup and abandonment, and descriptions of weddings are also written on Si-kyung.
Emotions and sorrows always exist between humans. These emotions and sorrows must be resolved through love dialogue.
We must understand, forgive, and accept joy and sadness, good and bad things through intermarriage dialogue.
For this reason, he says, “Sex is not the most important thing among the important things to maintain a smooth marital life and conversation.”
There are 8,540 minutes per week.
Among them, it can be assumed that a total of 210 minutes are spent on sex. However, there will be much more time for active conversation between the couple.
In fact, it is said that sex between the marital couple is one of the most enjoyable means of communication.
If a couple lives with the desire to break up, live a separate life, and divorce at any time, how will the marriage be successful?
Marriage promises are not promises of young children who play in childhood.
Don’t think of it as a promise made by irresponsible people these days.
If married couples are unable to solve their problems through conversation, they should seek professional counseling.
Among the means of communication is the means of action.
It has already been explained that lovemaking between couples is also a form of behavioral communication.
Some say that the husband tells his wife, “Let’s go into the bedroom to talk” instead of telling his wife to go into the bedroom and “let’s make love.”
15 tips To have the best relationship between wife and husband
Photo: Yonsei University Medical school’s 25th graduation Anniversary reunion with my beloved wife and me
According to Gary Chapman, the five ways to express and experience the love that Chapman calls “love languages 5 are:
- words of affirmation
- quality time together
- acts of service (devotion)
- physical touch love
- Receiving gifts
When asked to share three qualities of primary relationship which they felt were most enhancing to continued growth in love, the population of this study responded that the most essential qualities were (in order):
- Communication
- Affection
- Compassion/Forgiveness
- Honesty
- Acceptance
- Dependability
- Sense of humor
- Romance
- Patient
- 15. Freedom
From Loving Each other by Leo Buscaglia