Aggressive behavior, violence, and anger expression
Aggressive behavior, violence, and anger ventilation Aggressive Behavior, Overview of Violence and Anger Expression, Causes
• Aggressive behavior is a form of anger expression.
• Children and adolescents and adults sometimes get angry. It is normal to get angry.
• People often say, “He is a very good person who never gets angry” and “That person is a bad person because he gets angry.” This is both true and wrong.
• Anger is also called anger. Expressing your anger with the words “express anger.”
• The degree and method of expressing anger may vary from time to time or may vary according to age, maturity, educational level, and individual.
• The degree and method of expressing anger can be problematic, depending on the situation or appropriateness, or treated as positive rather than problematic.
• When expressing anger as aggressive behavior, aggressive behavior can be problematic depending on the degree, type, and method of aggressive behavior.
• Many people think it’s best to be upset when something gets upset, that is, expressing anger in itself is bad and not at all.
• Even when they are angry, they rate it as a better person to behave like people who don’t seem to be angry at all. And even if you’re angry, there are many parents who think that restraining the expression of anger is the ultimate beauty in human relationships, the degree of human beings to walk on, and believing that they should educate their children to live without being angry and train their children.
• Some of the so-called intellectuals say, “Those who endure even when they are angry are the Son of Man,” and teach their children that they should be Son of Man.
• It makes sense.
• The Bible, Ephesians 4:29 says, “Do not speak anything dirty outside your mouth, but speak good words as it is used to edify them, so that they may bring favor to those who listen.” It can be interpreted as “don’t be angry”.
• Training your child to properly express anger when he or she is angry is proper child training.
• Proper expression of anger when angry is extremely normal, and even men, women, young and old can sometimes get angry.
• But when you get angry, how you express your anger becomes a problem.
• Ideally, if you are angry, focus only on the source that made you angry, be gentle, humble, quiet, logically, and reasonably express your anger positively.
• It is the responsibility and duty of parents, and the virtue of child training, to train their children to express their anger positively and reasonably and maturely when they are angry with them.
• However, as explained just above, there are not so many adults or children in this world who can express their anger positively.
• The degree and method of expressing anger is related to the maturity of each individual’s personality, the age and nature of each individual, and the source of anger.
• Certain adults and children express their anger by making an unpleasantly loud noise when they are angry, sometimes destroying property, swearing with words, and engaging in physical damage by emotionally and physically attacking others to express their anger through negative and aggressive behavior Sometimes it does.
• From birth, from infancy to school-age, from adolescence to adult growth and development, some believe that you can naturally acquire proper anger expression without teaching or learning how to express anger positively.
• Some parents believe that children can express their anger positively and reasonably. It may be, but usually, it is not.
• Teach your children how to properly express anger.
• Children should learn how to properly express their anger during growth and development.
• Children should be trained to learn how to properly express their anger.
• Today, infants, school-age children, and adolescent children are a big concern because they cannot properly express their anger for various reasons, and express their anger negatively or aggressively.
• In particular, today’s adolescent children express their anger with aggressive behaviors everywhere and at any time, sometimes using violence as a way to express their anger, shaking homes, social groups, and schools.
• In addition, it is often seen between couples, siblings, peers, friends, and all walks of life expressing anger through aggressive behavior.
• Students can be seen expressing anger by aggressive behavior towards teachers, wife to husband, husband to wife, child to parent, parent to child, employee to employer, and politician followed by a politician.
• Today, especially adolescent children, express their anger as aggressive behavior towards parents and social authorities.
• At home and at school, adolescents express their anger by aggressive behavior on the playground at the campsite. They even beat him up for rubbing his shoulder.
• Some children show their anger by aggressive behavior while playing games and exercising while studying for exams and taking exams.
• It breaks the hearts of all of us today for children and adolescents, even more, to express their anger with aggressive behavior toward siblings, parents and relatives, school teachers, peers and friends, and authorities.
• Among aggressive behaviors, passive-aggressive behavior is a type of behavior that expresses anger.
• Passive-aggressive behavior is the worst way to express anger that indirectly destroys the mind, mind, property, and sometimes body of not only oneself but also others.
• Some adolescent children, when angry, focus their anger on the angry focus, not expressing their anger, but through passive-aggressive behavior.
• Let’s find out here what causes passive-aggressive behavior to express anger.
• Anger can be normal in all children and adolescents, from newborn to puberty, and it is normal for them to express anger.
• Some of the newborns are hungry and when she wants to breastfeed, she does not cry for breastfeeding, while others are meek who wait quietly for their mother to take care of feeding her.
• Some newborns are able to find their mother’s nipples by using primordial reflexes, such as the natural luting reflex, just crying.
• In the latter case, it can be said that anger is expressed through a kind of aggressive behavior, and in the former case, it can be said that anger is expressed through a passive-aggressive expression method.
• After the newborn, infants and toddlers crying when they want to eat is a kind of aggressive behavior.
• In athletic events, you can advertise with aggressive behavior according to the spirit of the sport and the rules of the sport, and promote productively by expressing anger.
• Toddler walking When infants are angry, they suck their fingers, show anger attacks, or cry so hard that it is difficult to soothe them.
Photo 2-18. It is not wrong to be angry. It is important to teach them to properly express their anger. Copyright ⓒ 2011 John Sangwon Lee, MD., FAAP
• Infants aged 2-4 sometimes express aggressive behavior with words, and infants aged 3 express their anger with aggressive behavior to retaliate.
• In this way, it is normal to express anger with aggressive behavior that is physiologically and reasonably appropriate to age, maturity, and level of development. And it’s normal to express anger with positive and productive aggressive behavior.
• However, expressing anger with inappropriate and excessively aggressive behavior should be considered an abnormal, unacceptable, and dangerous behavior type.
• Infants, school-age children, and adolescents who are excessively restricted or inadequately protected by parents or authorities are more likely to express anger through aggressive behavior.
• Children and adolescents who grow up without adequate protection, care, and love from parents or authorities, or children who are not trained in love to act properly even in indulgence, and who are raised neglected by love, are likely to express their anger through aggressive behavior.
Children who grow up under unconditional and genuine love from their parents, children who are not trained for love and trained with physical and mental punishment, and children who are not adequately accommodated and cared for by their parents are more likely to express their anger by aggressive behavior.
• Children who grow up being unfairly treated by school or state and social authorities or forced to do inappropriate behavior can manifest their anger as aggressive behavior.
• Children who have been punished and raised at home or in school, especially physically punished, or who have been verbally embarrassed or humiliated in front of others, are better able to express their anger by aggressive behavior.
• Certain children may express their anger at the father or by aggressive behavior towards the mother as a means and method of taking the side of either mother or father.
• Children in families with severe marital discord and children who have been frequently exposed to scenes of violent media such as TV, video, and rock music are likely to express their anger through aggressive behavior.
• Children, especially those whose parents express their anger as aggressive behavior or who are often punished without being properly trained for true unconditional love from their parents, are better at expressing anger with aggressive behavior.
• In addition, children who have been physically or mentally abused by anyone as a child (child abuse) express their anger through more aggressive behaviors, sometimes with passive-aggressive behaviors, and some children are against their peers, parents, or social authorities. They tend to express their anger through aggressive behavior.
• In today’s world, a lot of right and wrong notions and relationships about family, relatives, and child-rearing have disappeared and are not well harmonized. have.
• Children from families with unemployment, discord, crime, or mental illness are more likely to express their anger by aggressive behavior.
• Boys are more aggressive than girls, and older children are more aggressive than girls.